Self Description: Okay so I'll be honest, I have a weakness for a man who books the restaurant without asking "where do you want to go." Just straight up makes a decision. Revolutionary concept, apparently. I'm easy to spoil and I genuinely appreciate it. Not because I can't take care of myself as I absolutely can, but because there's something lovely about a man who enjoys taking care of someone. Who notices when my glass is empty, who upgrades things just because he can, who makes life feel a little more comfortable simply by being in it. In return I am excellent company. Warm, attentive, genuinely interested in the person across from me. I'm drawn to men who have lived a little. Who have perspective, patience, and enough confidence that they don't need to prove anything to anyone anymore. That combination is more attractive to me than anything else. If you like the idea of someone to take care of and do it well, I think we'd get along beautifully.

Comments: Older than me and comfortable with that. Not trying to keep up with anything, not explaining himself to anyone. Enjoys taking care of someone. Not as a transaction as a pleasure. A man who plans the evening, thinks ahead about what would make things nicer. Who gets something out of making the person with him feel looked after. Has enough life behind him to have real stories, real perspective, real patience. Conversations with him go somewhere interesting because he's actually been somewhere interesting. Generous in the broadest sense, with attention, with the small gestures that add up to something. He notices when something would make me happy and does it without waiting to be asked. Are you here? Let's chat.