Self Description: I believe in one love. Not because I'm naive because I've thought about it and that's genuinely what I want. Something that grows slowly, the kind you build carefully the way you'd compose a shot you actually care about getting right. I'm soft with people, home matters to me, warmth matters to me, the person next to me matters to me in a way that's hard to explain until you feel it. I give everything to the people I love. Looking for someone who believes in the same thing. Who isn't here to see what happens but knows exactly what he wants and isn't afraid of how serious that sounds.

Comments: My grandmother was married to my grandfather for 42 years. When he got sick she never once left the room for long because she said the air felt wrong without him in it. I grew up thinking that was just what love looked like. I still do. So yes I'm looking for something that serious. A man who already knows he wants a wife, a home, a life that belongs to both of them. Who understands that choosing someone fully is not a loss of anything, it's the whole point. That kind of love exists. I've seen it. I'm not willing to settle for anything that doesn't at least want to become it. If you're the kind of man who reads this and feels something familiar rather than something heavy, write to me.